“The key to being happy is knowing you have the power to choose what to accept and what to let go.” -Dodinsky I entered 2017 thoroughly exhausted. A month before, December 1st to be…
Day 24: Joachim
I was wondering how to approach this, and then a couple of weeks ago, I read the story of a Muslim man and Sikh woman who faced fierce opposition to their love…
Dusk: Omotayo
2017 is the year everything came apart so everything could come together. There were times despair hugged me so tight, I reached the bottom and therefore I had no choice than to…
We The Debaters
I write these things largely for your education. The expectation for me is that as more young men read these posts, they are more equipped to stay longer in their wives’ houses.…
Sift
The starless night was a curse and a blessing as they walked to the car, one half of the pair a tottering, stuttering mess swaddled in expensive baby lace and powder blue…
Hero Timi (Happy Women’s Day)
Yesterday my wife reminded me about the faulty faucet in our bathroom and how it’s always dripping noisily. What actually hurts her is that the dripping follows a predictable time cadence. She…
HER 4
In case you just stumbled on this first, you can catch up on the rest of the Her Series here: CLICK. ===================================== “Wuraola, I understand that you are frustrated and angry. You…
HER 3
There was a new ambience as I moved around the house tidying things up. Change was coming. Finishing up little projects here and there, baby proofing the house. I was dealing with…
I Love My Wife
Many of us are always angry. Life can be very challenging but this is not the place to be angry. This is not a census for angry people. On Monday morning this…
HER 2
I was f*#ked. My mind was racing at a million miles per second. What was I going to say? This was not one of those situations where saying a bit was enough.I…